Tuesday, December 23, 2008

I've been chatting with this cute guy lately. He's almost 28 years old. He lives in his parents' basement. He's closeted. And he's smokin' hot. I don't usually do closeted type guys...but he's fun and sweet and all these other wonderful things so we've been chatting, and it's been fun. Until this morning.

We'd been chatting for several hours, in which the conversation had gotten really intense a couple of times, and had gotten pretty sexual at other times. Both of us talking about past sexual encounters; boyfriends; family. All kinds of stuff. Well, I asked him, when was the last time he got tested...and the tone shifted drastically. A normal question in this day and age, and one that anyone who's having sex should be comfortable asking, in my opinion. And he says that he hasn't. I asked him why? He said that he feels that you kind of have to actually have sex to get an STD. Now...in our conversations I've learned that this guy has been fucked at least a couple of times, and that he's had sex with multiple partners...which I point out to him. He says that he's never had unprotected sex. To which I say that condoms are't 100%, and he says that he knows. So I ask him again, if he knows that they aren't 100% safe, and he's had sex with multiple partners, why hasn't he really been tested? At which point he goes silent for 40 minutes, and when I ask if he's ok, he lets me know that he doesn't want to talk to me anymore.

Boy needs to grow up, is my opinion.

Which sucks. Because most of the time he's completely adorable. We were talking about hanging out, and there were implications that we might do more than that, and it was all going well. But I don't feel safe having that kind of fun with someone who's never been tested. Especially if that person is 28 years old and has been having sex for years; who's only had 1 boyfriend, which lasted for 2.5 weeks. I don't care if he and his partners used 4 condoms a piece. erg. The guy has issues. And they need to be dealt with. And that's mostly spoiled what hadn't even started. Oh well.

   posted by Bald Jason at 09:25 AM
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