Tuesday, September 29, 2009

I didn't get to sleep until after 5am. I wanted to, but was having trouble getting there. I woke around 10:40 AM, dressed and went to Mark's work where I spoke to his employer and another coworker about the little things that are building up at work that are affecting Mark in negative ways. It was very hard for me to go there, but I felt it had to be said, and was thanked for my efforts and assured that there would be no retaliation towards Mark in any way for my visit. They also communicated what they think Mark needs to work on, and they're right, but they seem to be placing the blame soley on Mark, when they haven't met him half way, which I think is unfair. Actually, I think his employer comes off as an asshole even when maybe he isn't? It's sad really. Anyways, I told them what they can do to correct the situation (little things like thanking him for his work) and I talked to Mark about improving his communication and how he can approach certain people to show that improvment, and make it more of a team effort and not all about Mark being hard to talk to. It's just so fucking silly, and they've completely failed him in this arena, but I think Mark has a real chance to take the high road and come out looking pretty spottless if he'll only take advantage of the situation. We'll see.

When I got home I told Mark about the meeting. He said he wasn't mad and that he admired me for my bravery. I got him up for work ontime. He's in the shower now, though he's usually still asleep at this time.

I need to call my new insurance peeps about an appointment that was made 6 months ago. I hate making these kinds of calls. I get so nervous.

   posted by Bald Jason at 12:13 PM
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